Mamihlapinatapai

Mamihlapinatapai (from the Yagan language) – “The wordless, yet meaningful look shared by two people who both desire to initiate something but are both reluctant to start.”

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Mamihlapinatapai:

A look. Glance.
A nod. Wordless acknowledgment.
A smile. Crooked but beautiful.

Teeth clench down on the of my inside cheek.
Butterflies swarm my brain.
Thoughts go blank.

Staring into the dark abyss of brown eyes.
Lost in this deep chasm of space and time.

Say something.
Say anything.

Glance down.
Breath in. Okay.
Look up. Oh.

Moment passed.
Should have said something sooner.

Moments like these.
They don’t occur twice.

(By: Ashlyn Skaar
September 2013 ©)

Photo credit: http://palabrasaflordepiel.com/2013/01/11/la-palabra-mas-concisa-del-mundo/

The Essentials

I’m packing to go out of town on a retreat this weekend. And for me packing is tremendously hard.
Whenever I’m in town and go to find something to wear, it feels like I have nothing in my closet, but then when I go out of town… I want to take my entire closet with me.
I’m going to be gone for less than 48 hours, so all I really need to pack are some clothes and the essentials.

What are the essentials you ask? Good Question.

I think everyone has a different set of things that they need to make them feel equally prepared and adventurous. You might find my essentials list odd (sorry I’m not sorry), but I have used everything on this list almost every time I go out of town.
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Here’s my top ten ESSENTIALS list:
1) A head lamp – you never know when you’re going to need a flashlight, but also two hands free. (Like if you’re fighting a bear at night, you want to be able to see it, but you’ll probably need both hands if you want any chance of surviving)
2) A Fanny Pack – again with the hands free deal (Like if the bear is humanized, from a pixar movie, and wants a stick of gum)
3) Mixed CD – this soundtrack of awesomeness needs at least one song from a 90s boy band, hopefully more
4) FLANNEL – multiple (I’m packing 3 flannel shirts and a flannel vest… you can never have too much flannel)
5) Clothes – because in some places, nudity is a no-no
6) Sleeping Gear – preferably with cartoon characters plastered all over
7) Duct Tape – it must have a tacky print (mine has mustaches)
8) Ear Plugs – in case one of your companions snores… and trust me someone always snores (usually someone who makes it a point to say that they don’t snore)
9) Camera – to document all of your shenanigans
10) Band Aids – has to have superheroes or princesses (toy story characters will also be excepted); battle wounds just heal faster if your band aid has a cartoon character on it

And that my list! What is your most essential item for going out of town?